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From: "Brian L. Cole" <>
Subject: Thoughts on Adding a Wife
Date: Wed, 1 Jun 2005 12:56:46 -0500


When you click add a wife or add a husband do you think about all that went into that process?
the first date, the holding of hands, the first kiss, the first flowers, the long conversations, his express his dreams, she listening with sparkling eyes and accepting those dreams, the asking, the accepting, the telling of parents, the wedding, where to have it, the dress, the maids, the vows, the ring, the honeymoon, the first night.

When you click add a son or daughter do you think prior to that was: the conception, the telling of the husband, telling the parents, the growing belly, the anticipation, the pain, the birth, then boy or girl, what do we name him or her, then feedings and diapers?

These are what I (a guy) think when I click the buttons. So easy to click the button. So much involved behind the button. (Please forgive any sexism. It wasn't intended to be demeaning.)

Just some thoughts as I happily add to my data base.



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